It’s about cool?
June 29, 2010
Hamhock likes to wear a beanie. It started sometime this past winter. He would most often wear it to bed, or put it on first thing on in the morning. It looks really cute, I have to admit.
But I just thought it was a sensory thing. . .like, he likes the feeling of the fabric on his hair, or the weight of the beanie on his head, or the enclosed feeling the hat gives while shaping his cute little face.
Not so, my friends, not so.
One day he forgot it while we were getting ready to pull out of the garage. He asked me to run back in the house to get it. When I returned and gave it to him to put on, he asks me to pull down the passenger side mirror so he can look to make sure “it looks cool.”
WHAT?!?!?! My six-year old son, diagnosed with autism at age 2 1/2, is wearing his beanie because “it looks cool?!?!?!”
Wow. I honestly had no idea.
Why are we Moms always the last to figure these things out? I’m sure it’s because we brought these precious babes into the world (in my case with the help of Hamhock’s beautiful birthmother) and we just want to hold onto those precious innocent moments.
Well, innocent moment #2 gone. My kid likes to look cool.
(I think innocent moment #1 was kissing a girl in Kindergarten!)
Here’s a pic when he was probably about three, being silly with this same beanie (it’s actually Foo’s).